
<p>Dear Classical Wisdom Reader,</p><p><span>Most of us like to think we’re good hosts.</span></p><p><span>We offer friends a drink when they come over. We make up the spare bed. We apologise if dinner is a little overcooked. We tell guests to make themselves at home.</span></p><p><span>The ancient Greeks would have approved...but probably not for the reasons you imagine.</span></p><p><span>For Homer, hospitality wasn’t simply about being polite. And it wasn’t good just etiquette or social convention. It was a </span><em><span>sacred</span></em><span> duty, watched over by Zeus himself. </span></p><p><span>Get it right, and you might earn lifelong friendships, powerful allies, or divine favour. Get it wrong, and kingdoms could fall, wars could begin, and heroes could die.</span></p><p><span>So yeah, it mattered!</span></p><p><span>Now, that may sound like an extraordinary amount to place upon offering someone dinner. Yet once you realise it, hospitality is everywhere in the </span><em><span>Odyssey</span></em><span>. It quietly shapes almost every major encounter, determines who is noble and who is monstrous, and even explains why Odysseus spends ten years struggling to return home.</span></p><p><span>You could say the whole epic begins and ends with </span><em><span>Xenia</span></em><span>… </span></p><p><span>I know lots of folks tend to remember the Cyclops, the Sirens, and the Trojan Horse... but Homer wanted us to notice something else as well… the way we welcome the stranger standing at our door.</span></p><p><span>Read on to understand this fundamental aspect to the epic that continues to inspire. </span></p><p>All the best,</p><p>Anya Leonard<br>Founder and Director</p><p>Classical Wisdom </p><div><div><div><p>Plumb the remarkable depths of the Odyssey with our fantastic conversation with Joel Christensen,<a href="https://classicalwisdom.substack.com/p/odysseus-the-antihero"> which members can access here</a>. If you aren’t a member, make sure to subscribe to get all our resources and bring the Classics into your life:</p></div><div><div></div><div></div></div></div></div><p></p><h1>The Odyssey: Be Our Guest with Xenia</h1><p>By Ben Potter</p><p>If your mother taught you say ‘please’ and ‘thank you’, to not sit down until offered a chair, to bend over backwards to make guests feel welcome, and to always wipe your feet before before going in, then she might have picked up on the theme of <em>xenia</em> (hospitality) in <em>The Odyssey</em>.</p><p>However, it is unlikely she enforced it for the same reasons as the Homeric Greeks.</p><p>They were worried that they might have been talking to a powerful god in disguise and should, therefore, show good manners.</p><p>There are many rich and varied themes in <em>The Odyssey</em>: blood, guts and gore, tall-tales, deceptions and subterfuge, sex, glory, gold, family, love and gods. However, it may be surprising that above all these, it is one that appears so simple, <em>xenia</em>, that has a hugely dominant role to play.</p><p>However, we’re getting ahead of ourselves, what exactly was <em>xenia</em>?</p><p><a href="https://classicalwisdom.substack.com/p/why-zeus-cared-about-good-manners?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share"><span>Share</span></a></p><p><em>Xenia</em> has been broadly interpreted as comprising aspects of hospitality and generosity directed towards foreigners (i.e. those not from your town).</p><p>However, it was more than merely a set of manners and social customs, but actually a religious ritual which placed demands both on hosts and guests.</p><p>The god Zeus Xenios oversaw appropriate observation of the <em>xenia</em> laws. Slightly confusingly, Zeus Xenios is merely an aspect of the head god Zeus, and not a entirely separate being.</p><p>A good executor of <em>xenia</em> should:</p><ul><li><p>Welcome strangers into the home</p></li><li><p>Offer them food, drink, and a bath</p></li><li><p>Give up the most comfortable chair for them</p></li><li><p>Not ask them any questions until they are satisfied and comfortable</p></li><li><p>Give them a gift to depart with</p></li><li><p>(When a guest) be respectful, charming, entertaining, don’t outstay your welcome and give a gift if you have one</p></li></ul><div><figure><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!6gCW!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb7f2c04e-38c5-41f1-ad6f-09afcb9a57fe_765x600.jpeg"></a><div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!6gCW!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb7f2c04e-38c5-41f1-ad6f-09afcb9a57fe_765x600.jpeg"></a><source type="image/webp"><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!6gCW!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb7f2c04e-38c5-41f1-ad6f-09afcb9a57fe_765x600.jpeg"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!6gCW!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb7f2c04e-38c5-41f1-ad6f-09afcb9a57fe_765x600.jpeg" width="765" height="600" alt=""></a></source><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!6gCW!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb7f2c04e-38c5-41f1-ad6f-09afcb9a57fe_765x600.jpeg"></a><div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!6gCW!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb7f2c04e-38c5-41f1-ad6f-09afcb9a57fe_765x600.jpeg"></a><div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!6gCW!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb7f2c04e-38c5-41f1-ad6f-09afcb9a57fe_765x600.jpeg"></a></div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!6gCW!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb7f2c04e-38c5-41f1-ad6f-09afcb9a57fe_765x600.jpeg"></a></div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!6gCW!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb7f2c04e-38c5-41f1-ad6f-09afcb9a57fe_765x600.jpeg"></a></div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!6gCW!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb7f2c04e-38c5-41f1-ad6f-09afcb9a57fe_765x600.jpeg"></a><figcaption>The Abduction of Helen by Francesco Primaticcio</figcaption></figure></div><p><em>Xenia</em> was actually the root cause of all the troubling situations Odysseus found himself in throughout <em>The Odyssey</em>. This is because the <em>casus belli</em> of the Trojan war, <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paris_(mythology)">Paris</a>’ abduction of Helen, was a most serious breach of xenia etiquette.</p><p>Whilst <em>The Iliad</em>, with its tensions and tantrums of the Greek commanders during the tenth year of the Trojan War, was predicated on a breach of hospitality, <em>The Odyssey</em> deals with it at every turn.</p><p>In fact the entire poem, chronicling the plight of a man trying to combat gods and monsters on his way home, is largely preoccupied with entertaining, or being entertained.</p><p>So much so that <em>xenia</em> underpins most of the significant scenes.</p><div><div><div><p><strong>Be our guest to become a Classical Wisdom Member! Currently read in all 50 states and in over 200 countries, our Classics loving community is genuinely the nicest corner of the internet. Be a part of it:</strong></p></div><div><div></div><div></div></div></div></div><p>The moral/heroic quality of the majority of characters is determined (or reflected) by their adherence to, or rejection of, the conventions of <em>xenia</em>.</p><p>As early as book 1 we see that Odysseus’ wife, Penelope and son, Telemachus are obliged to entertain the 108 Suitors who are looking to usurp Odysseus. As Telemachus puts it, they are “eating up my substance, waste it away; and soon they will break myself to pieces” [1.251-252].</p><p>Such is the importance of <em>xenia</em> that, by honouring it, Telemachus would rather risk ruin and murder from the Suitors than wrath or disfavour from Zeus.</p><div><figure><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!lkmu!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa765eef0-047d-4f33-ac02-47bad9cde5ef_300x254.jpeg"></a><div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!lkmu!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa765eef0-047d-4f33-ac02-47bad9cde5ef_300x254.jpeg"></a><source type="image/webp"><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!lkmu!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa765eef0-047d-4f33-ac02-47bad9cde5ef_300x254.jpeg"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!lkmu!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa765eef0-047d-4f33-ac02-47bad9cde5ef_300x254.jpeg" width="380" height="321" alt="telemachus" title="telemachus"></a></source><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!lkmu!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa765eef0-047d-4f33-ac02-47bad9cde5ef_300x254.jpeg"></a><div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!lkmu!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa765eef0-047d-4f33-ac02-47bad9cde5ef_300x254.jpeg"></a><div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!lkmu!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa765eef0-047d-4f33-ac02-47bad9cde5ef_300x254.jpeg"></a></div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!lkmu!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa765eef0-047d-4f33-ac02-47bad9cde5ef_300x254.jpeg"></a></div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!lkmu!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa765eef0-047d-4f33-ac02-47bad9cde5ef_300x254.jpeg"></a></div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!lkmu!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa765eef0-047d-4f33-ac02-47bad9cde5ef_300x254.jpeg"></a><figcaption>Telemachus</figcaption></figure></div><p>It is this quality of the often weak and emasculated Telemachus that shows his nature is truly heroic. e.g. Upon seeing a stranger in his house he “went straight to the forecourt, the heart within him scandalized that a guest should still be standing at the doors” [1.119-120].</p><p>He is held up in direct contrast to the blasphemous Suitors who are not only eating him out of house and home, but also show disrespect to the disguised Odysseus by throwing an animal hoof and a stool at him when he comes begging for food.</p><p>In books 1-4, Telemachus develops the <em>xenia</em> theme further by visiting the courts of Menelaus and Nestor. Here we have the chance to see how <em>xenia</em> should be properly conducted by wise and noble Homeric heroes.</p><p>The exception to this being Menelaus‘ wanton wife Helen, who refuses to accept personal responsibility for her <em>xenia</em>-breaching collusion with Paris: “I grieved for the madness that Aphrodite bestowed” [4.261-262].</p><p>Additionally, she commits the great sin of drugging Telemachus’ wine!</p><p>Our hero himself, Odysseus, is not exempt from incurring the wrath that goes hand in hand with disrespecting the laws of hospitality.</p><p>A key reason Odysseus’ journey home takes ten long years is because he angers the god Poseidon by blinding his son, the Cyclops. In itself, the act may be justified, but because it is done in the Cyclops’ home (well…cave anyway), Odysseus is breaking the <em>xenia</em> laws. He is being the ultimate bad guest.</p><p>In fact, Odysseus is doubly culpable in this case as, in addition to blinding his ‘host’, he also has the temerity to steal his cheese!</p><p><a href="https://classicalwisdom.substack.com/p/why-zeus-cared-about-good-manners?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share"><span>Share</span></a></p><p>Likewise, Odysseus shows very poor hospitality by slaughtering the 108 suitors in his own house. He also brandishes a sword on the nymph Circe when he and his men pay a visit to her island.</p><p>These <em>xenia</em> transgressions of Odysseus are only forgivable because, even though he is sinning as both host and guest, he is sinned against even more gravely.</p><p>The poem’s ultimate retribution for transgressing <em>xenia</em> comes in a moment of bloody climax at the court of Odysseus.</p><p>Having been beaten and abused by the Suitors, Odysseus picks up and manages to string a mighty bow. A bow so large and cumbersome that nobody but the hero himself could manage to wield it.</p><div><figure><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!Lp4c!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4f8a09ab-5806-4c5e-bfa6-352173bcea22_850x677.jpeg"></a><div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!Lp4c!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4f8a09ab-5806-4c5e-bfa6-352173bcea22_850x677.jpeg"></a><source type="image/webp"><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!Lp4c!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4f8a09ab-5806-4c5e-bfa6-352173bcea22_850x677.jpeg"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!Lp4c!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4f8a09ab-5806-4c5e-bfa6-352173bcea22_850x677.jpeg" width="850" height="677" alt="Retribution for bad Xenia" title="Retribution for bad Xenia"></a></source><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!Lp4c!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4f8a09ab-5806-4c5e-bfa6-352173bcea22_850x677.jpeg"></a><div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!Lp4c!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4f8a09ab-5806-4c5e-bfa6-352173bcea22_850x677.jpeg"></a><div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!Lp4c!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4f8a09ab-5806-4c5e-bfa6-352173bcea22_850x677.jpeg"></a></div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!Lp4c!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4f8a09ab-5806-4c5e-bfa6-352173bcea22_850x677.jpeg"></a></div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!Lp4c!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4f8a09ab-5806-4c5e-bfa6-352173bcea22_850x677.jpeg"></a></div><a href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/%24s_!Lp4c!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4f8a09ab-5806-4c5e-bfa6-352173bcea22_850x677.jpeg"></a><figcaption>The slaying of the Suitors</figcaption></figure></div><p>He takes aim and fires straight through the neck of the chief Suitor, Antinous.</p><p>The giant, almost inoperable bow had, aptly, been a <em>xenia</em> gift to Odysseus from Iphitos.</p><p>107 more Suitors fall to sword, spear and bow.</p><p>Thus blood pays for the dishonouring of host and household. The almighty Zeus finds a way to punish those who fail to show appropriate levels of honour and humility.</p><p>The hubristic and impious are slain without mercy.</p><p>Justice is done.</p><p><em>Xenia</em> has won.</p><p>So next time, remember to wipe your feet.</p><p></p>
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